Donatien Alphonse François, better
know as the Marque de Sade once stated, “It is always by way
of pain one arrives at pleasure.” It would be easy to dismiss the Marque’s
claim, considering the pain he was referring to involved spanking teenage hookers and spent most of his days in an insane asylum, writing about spanking teenage
hookers. But the moment I heard my grandmother, a caring and gentle woman, laughing
aloud as I explained in detail how I managed to break my arm in half, I
realized the Marque may have been more cunning than coo coo, and that the
relationship between pleasure and pain is as complicated as it is symbiotic.
Unfortunately for us English speakers, our language never got around to creating its own term for
this relationship, and must refer to the German word schadenfreude, which roughly translates to damaged joy. And sure, I understand that the
Germans have an above average grasp of sadism, but in my opinion, deferring to former
genocidal fascists to define anything related to joy, damaged or not, is just bad policy. That
said, the German philosopher, Arthur Schopenhauer once touted this type of pleasure as
the most evil sin of human feeling, saying, "To feel envy is human, to
savor schadenfreude is devilish." And he might be right. In that
sadism, in its purest form, is a choice, and in the case of schadenfreude,
which is a seemingly automatic and pleasurable response to the unfortunate, is
still a choice. -Albeit a subconscious, highly passive and much funnier
choice, a choice nonetheless. Because of this, it’s easy to understand why Mr. Schopenhauer
considered schadenfreude, and all of mankind for that matter, evil.
Aristotle wrote in
his Nicomachean Ethics that envy, or
rather the opposite of envy, or what he called, epikhairekakia, was the cause of man’s keenness of another man’s
failure. John Ray, the father of modern English naturalism believed “misery
loves company,” which means, when someone’s in pain, sobbing to those with
similar sorrows will, in theory, make them empathetic and therefore feel
better. But the Marque would have us believe the contrary, that company loves misery, and the reason miserable people feel better in the
company of other miserable people is
not empathy, but rather people observing others with problems worse than their
own and are pleased to see their life could be worse. This is why you, i.e. company, can’t help but enjoy a grown man catching a baseball
with his crotch, aka, misery. But
why?
Rob Reiner said it
best when he stated, “comedy is when you fall into a pit and get impaled on a
spike, and tragedy is when you stub your toe.” But are Mr. Reiner, the Marque
De Sade, and Aristotle to have us believe humans are all merely a bunch
sadistic pricks who revel, exponentially in the disproportionate severity of the
suffering of others by imagining ourselves enduring said tragic event, and are
just glad that it’s not us that's been impaled on the spike? With this logic, pain equals
comedy, therefore more pain will equate to more comedy. As proven here:
But if comedy were this straightforward, wouldn’t struggling comedians simply take the stage, pull out a hatchet and begin hacking away at their limbs until humor is achieved? Probably. That’s why Mark Twain believed, “comedy is tragedy plus time.” Which means pain, or “tragedy,” would have to exceed a certain amount of time, or repeat itself (x) number of times, in order to become comically viable. This explains why stubbing a toe once can result in tragedy, but if a toe is stubbed, say two times in two minutes, comedy will increase because the initial tragedy has been repeated in a short amount of time. However, the severity of each stubbing, which theoretically should multiply the level of pain exponentially, would therefore increase the tragedy’s comedic value. For instance, if someone, other then yourself were to stub a toe, say five times in fifteen minutes and then happens to sever that toe upon the fifth stubbing, which causes massive bleeding and results in death, the event would unequivocally equate to humor. As proven here:
But death, as well as levels of pain exceeding 10, as seen in Figures 1 & 2, enter a grey area of schadenfreude. Because ultimately the level of humor will be based on the relative distance, both physically and characteristically of the relationship of the individuals taking part in the event which could literally involve millions of factors. For example: height, weight, age, sex, race, species, context, insecurities, occupation, religion, pain tolerance, distance, use of “cuss” words, and most importantly, irony*.
*All factors are
subject to large variances due to subjectivity, sense of humor, and ability to detect
and or appreciate irony.
As figure 3. illustrates, a thirty-three-year
old male deriving pleasure from the death of a short, squat-heavy, elderly, African
American, female, human, with a lisp, from Atlanta via multiple toe stubbings would
be far more difficult, due to an inability to relate, then say, the toe
stubbing demise of a tallish, thirty-three-year-old, white, well spoken, protestant, human, insurance claimant, from New Hampshire and is why we laugh at our
friends, family and those we know well, when they trip and fall.
While familiarity
and relatability are important, physical distance is one of the most critical
factors. Because if the man in figure 3. is standing, let’s say three-feet
from the man when stubbing his toe, he would not, assuming he’s not a sadistic fuck,
be able to laugh as they say, in his face. Therefore, it’s fundamentally important
to witness a tragedy from a distance far enough to, A. conceal all enjoyment, i.e.
pointing and laughing, and, B. not be required to help. Hence, the popularity
of books and movies, which places the observer at the scene, just not
physically, and allow he or she to do nothing but safely snicker from
somewhere from the future and not offend those involved.
As proven here:
Then of course there’s context. In
that, do those incurring the pain deserve it or not? Immanuel Kant, in his Lectures on Ethics, regarded the desire
for revenge as, “the sweetest form of schadenfreude.” It's difficult to argue with Kant here. For thousands of years, and even today, to a lesser degree in the United
States, humans garner enjoyment from watching the guilty pay for their sins in
public. Therefore, proximity aside, if we had witnessed the aforementioned man,
say, dropkick a couple of puppies and then stub his toe, we would have chalked it up
to karmic revenge and laughed in his face, wishing the man was then mauled
by a pack of wolves with AIDS and suffered more than the puppies. As proven here:
However, even allowing for all aforementioned
variances, including distances and context, there can be no absolutes. In that,
if the elderly black woman after the fifth stubbing happens to use profanity during
her final words by proclaiming, in a lispy southern accent, “Mossafoka’! I fink
I loth my mossafokin’ thoe!” the incident’s comedic value would most likely
surpass the younger, more relatable tragedy. Because in the world of
quantitative humor, cuss words, specifically the word fuck and its many connotations, represent an unknown and dynamic dynamic
that, depending on context, can approach infinity. As proven here:
Irony, unlike cuss words, which can
backfire in certain company, has the ability to transcend all levels of sadness
and suffering and make comedy an absolute**. For example, even if the elderly black woman’s last words included
a lispy cuss word like “mossafuka,” if someone at the younger white man’s
funeral, say the pastor, happens
to stub his or her toe on the casket during the ceremony, the irony, depending
on the veritable quantity and quality, can actually multiply infinity and prove
to be so overwhelmingly comical, not even a mourning mother would be safe from
the comedic effects of schadenfreude. As proven here:
**All factors are subject to large
variances due to subjectivity, sense of humor, and ability to detect and or
appreciate irony.